ok. aku mahu kembali mengetuk2 keybod lappy ini. sem ni kelas pn dh x byk,kiranya aku sudah pnya masa, tapi master proj..oppss..sem ni xstat smbung uat lg pn **lempang diri sndri laju2**
balik kpd tajuk. korg pnah dgr x org2 advice kt korg sndri or kwn2 or family or siapa2 la- yg tgh bsedih; x kisahlah sedih disebabkan kematian org tersayang, frust, clash whatsoever..
"busykan la diri u, insyaAllah one day u'll move on"
"hang pi la cr xtvt apa2 ka..kasi busy sket- make urself busy..nnt IA hg leh lupa bnda tu"
is it true??
frankly, i dont like the idea. or ayat kurg enaknya, aku x stuju, ok! apekehal, org tgh sedih, pastu suh uat keja byk2. ok, lets imagine, sipolan2 ni mak dia meninggal dunia, pastu ko suh dia busy- cr xtvt or pape- hurm, agak2 korg la kan dia leh enjoy ke..for eg enjoy or effective ke dia lepak kt workstation dia? or if she on vacation, seriously, do u expect her not to think of her late mom and enjoy vacation tu to the fullest?
so, as my suggestion, u better ask ur loves one yg tgh break or blackout to another thg. ingat Yang Maha Pencipta itu pasti- yakinla semua perkara ada hikmahnya. or if u dont know what 2 talk, ok..easy advice..dont talk! sumtym, action speaks louder than words. ur hugs can actually make a different.
oh, baideway, i'm neither a dr.Phil nor an Oprah. wahaha. xde ilmu pn bkaitan ni. dis is what i've been thinking lately. ntah btul pandangan ni ntah tak.
Wallahualam :)
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wah..apabila org final year/sem mula menaip..pe lg..apdet r psl majlis pertunangan anda~~ weeee
anyhow,slmt mule sem br!xoxo!
hana!! teruskan.. mahu baca..mahu baca...
weh, stuju gk.. if suh buat bz, mmg xbole,advice mcm xleh blah. laen la mmg bz tnp d buat2 dpt distract jap.
bila tgh besedih keciwa segala, hanya ALLAH dpt tlg, n we'll b better in time. insyaALLAH... memang suffer, mmg tergolek2, tp hanya mampu bersabar n jgn dok sorang2..
just my 2cents. :)
bey: insyaAllah :) bila2 aku tulis lg..c u dis wiken..
moon: psl e-day? sshhh..nnt2.. aku bosan weh dis sem. tu yg terpk nk tulis blk. evendo proj cm x jln lg.simulation part, xtau nk uat :(
uu.. bakal lecturer berblog~
sy berlainan pendapat.
Saya pernah mengalami kehilangan orang terdekat dan juga sedang adapt w single life.
well, get ur self busy n go for a holiday is a good advice. its called distraction.
ini pendapat & pengalaman sy je. ^_^ org len tatau la.
good one engineer fairy. mebi ko sesuai dgn cara itu. go on. skrg, happy je kan? nice one. enjoy ur life :D
HANA, finally! hehe
my POV; bley je advise suro 'make urself busy' tu. but it depends la. kalo beloved ones br lps meninggal, mcm x proper la nak ckp gitu. tp if takat break-up (br kapel 1 bulan pulak tu), drp dok nanges golek² dlm bilik, baek la p mingle.alang² dah ader title single.
life goes on :)
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